{"id":268,"date":"2023-10-04T08:12:15","date_gmt":"2023-10-04T08:12:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joergschwartze.com\/?p=268"},"modified":"2023-10-04T08:12:47","modified_gmt":"2023-10-04T08:12:47","slug":"268-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joergschwartze.com\/de\/268-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Nervens\u00e4ge"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<p><\/p>\n<p><span>\ud83d\ude33 I am a pain in the ass! &#8211; Really? <\/span><br \/><br \/><span>As CEO of a medium-sized company I got many unsolicited messages from people that wanted to sell something. I read and tried to react to most of them. However, some of them were really annoying and a few really were a pain in the ass, bombarding my inbox again and again.<\/span><br \/><br \/><span>Now I am a freelancer and &#8211; guess what &#8211; I am the pain in the ass myself? I hope that my own experience and learning from others about a smarter way of selling will prevent me from being annoying. However, I have to expand my network and get into a conversation with people I do not know. That costs me a lot of effort &#8211; not only time wise, but overcoming my own fears.<\/span><br \/><br \/><span>Here is what I learned in the past months:<\/span><br \/><br \/><span>\ud83d\udca1 Many people are open and willing to connect. A big thank you to these new connections that took time to talk to me.<\/span><br \/><span>\ud83d\udca1 Conversations are extremely inspiring and interesting &#8211; even though the minority was about \u201eselling my offer\u201c.<\/span><br \/><span>\ud83d\udca1 Conversations have completely unexpected outcomes &#8211; a good hint, a valuable connection or even a recommendation to the decision maker of another company.<\/span><br \/><br \/><span>A big thank you to all these new connections for the inspiring exchange. I am looking forward to many more of these conversations. For sure this will help me grow and establish my self-employment.<\/span><br \/><br \/><span>What about you? How do you connect to and exchange with people outside your direct network? What is your experience?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83d\ude33 I am a pain in the ass! &#8211; Really? 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